Estrangement doesn’t end because a parent says “just get over it” or “family is everything.” It doesn’t end because they want a holiday photo or because they suddenly feel uncomfortable with the distance. Healing only begins when the people who caused harm become safe enough to come back to. And safety is not sentimental. It’s not performative. It’s not a “we love you and miss you” text. Safety is accountability. Safety is truth-telling. Safety is the end of secrecy, control, gossip, triangulati

Here’s my advice to married women and women who want to stay “happily married”. Never take marital advice from women on social media. Don’t let a blind person help you cross the street when you can see. A lot of people question what they can’t relate to and judge what they can never understand. Not because they want to help you. But because they don’t think you deserve better than them. #millicentxandercs #momtok #marriedlife #couplegoals #momlife

lol a bit of ramble but sometimes I just sit and o think about how a lot of biracial people look Latinx and this is why 😭😭